Ladies! Don't Settle For These Kinds of Men




The ‘I must be in a relationship’ mentality is one mentality that should be far from the minds of every person else you might just fall into the wrong hands.
Ladies are the ones who are must culpable of this act; I’ve seen so many ladies settle for men who don’t deserve them and they would keep playing the role of a slave instead of a spouse in the relationship.
There are loads of men that ladies should never settle for and I would list seven of them

1. THE MAN WHO WOULD ALWAYS HIT YOU

I don’t think there should be any point in settling for a man that would want to exert his energy on a lady at the slightest provocation. A lady is supposed to be a man’s priced possession and nothing less. You can’t keep sustaining injuries every now and then and call it a relationship; you shouldn’t pride in a man that would want to flex his muscles on you every now and then; don’t kill yourself and call it a relationship; if he won’t respect your body then he doesn’t deserve you, there is no negotiating this.

2. THE MAN WHO WOULD HARDLY SEE YOUR WORTH

Before every lady should agree to enter a relationship with a man one question she should ask herself is “how much does he value me?” If he doesn’t value you like you are the most important person on earth then it means you are ready to settle for less. It shouldn’t even end at the beginning stages; the relationship should always be evaluated periodically to know how much your man values you. Have you ever been in a relationship where a man values you? If you have, then you should know why you should never settle for less.

3. THE MAN WHO WOULD WANT YOU FOR SEX ALONE

So many women are nothing more than a sexual instrument in their relationship and they don’t even bother. There is no contemplating this; if he wants you for sex alone then you should never settle for this. You are more than an instrument for sexual gratification.

4. THE MAN THAT WOULD CONTINUALLY CHEAT ON YOU

I know many wouldn’t agree with me on this one but it wouldn’t stop me from saying the truth, any man who can’t stay true to you doesn’t value you 100 percent. People make mistakes, no one is perfect and that I agree but if he ‘continually’ cheats on you then you shouldn’t settle for that. If he isn’t ready to curb such acts then he isn’t ready for you.

5. THE MAN WHO WOULDN’T LISTEN TO YOU

A relationship isn’t a one man affair, it isn’t a military camp ground where there is a commander that you have to listen to and obey at all times. You should date a man that would listen to what you have to say, that’s why it’s called a relationship. Trust me if you enter such a relationship where your man doesn’t listen to you and it heads to marriage, you have successfully given yourself a grief sentence.

6. THE MAN WHO WOULDN’T RESPECT YOU

There is a reason why it’s called a relationship; when two things are related it means there is a connection. So what’s the connection in settling for a man that won’t respect you; yes, every lady ought to respect her man but it doesn’t end there, every man ought to respect his lady as well; so if he doesn’t respect you, he probably doesn’t love and appreciate you, and you shouldn’t settle for this.

7. THE MAN THAT WOULD MAKE YOU FEAR HIM

Like I pointed out each earlier, a relationship isn’t a military ground; you should respect your man not fear him; don’t settle for a relationship that would make you fidget, don’t settle for a relationship where you are the lamb and your man is the lion; one person would definitely come off worse, and you deserve better than that.

Ladies, it’s time to get over that second class mentality; if your man won’t treat you right then don’t try to manage the relationship; if you aren’t happy in that relationship then don’t settle for what or who would make you unhappy. They say life isn’t a bed of roses but that doesn’t mean you should sleep on thorns.